In my teenage, I was called a jogi (a sadhu)
by my male friends – for I abstained from smoking and drinking. Neither did I
make any love proposal to any girl. Even, which was the most important for
earning the jogi nickname, I did not tease any girl on streets and I did not
write any girl's name on wall of my school's toilet!
Instead, I would help my mom and sister in
domestic chores. The boys would tell me that I was girlish. While many of my
men friends do not believe that I have never eve-teased, others find it
shocking – As if I failed as a man for not involving in any of such activities,
as if I could not showcase my masculinity.
But, it makes me sad that even those educated
friends find me different for not teasing girls on streets. I feel like crying
aloud to express pity over them. But, I do not cry – for I feel proud that I am
working for gender equality. Those friends who tease me for not teasing girls,
indeed, are reasons why I work for equality between men and women.